Tuesday, February 28, 2012
10 Ways to Improve Your Sex life
Sex is not rocket science, which means anyone can be good at it, and we can all keep improving our skills. In fact, getting better at sex is part of a married person’s job because good sex is part of the foundation of a good marriage. Here are 10 ways – from the basic to the more advanced – to spice up your sex life:
1. Talk to your spouse more.
In addition to talking about sex and sharing your sexual fantasies, you and your husband or wife should talk more in general. Improving your communication and speaking with one another more frequently will make you feel closer to one another. That will make you more intimate and probably less inhibited in the bedroom – or wherever you prefer to have sex.
2. Spend more time on foreplay.
Sex should be something to which you look forward. Foreplay is what gets you excited and anticipating the main event. It doesn’t have to be limited to the 15 minutes before you’d like to have sex. You could start the day with sexy text messages (think MMS with a revealing photo or an e-mail expressing how hot your husband looked as you both left for work).
3. Get better at oral sex.
Foreplay often ends with both partners performing oral sex on one another. Sometimes, people take oral sex for granted, but it can be quite pleasurable and can really put people, especially women, in the mood for sex. When performing cunnilingus on a woman, men should refrain from making jabbing movements with their tongue. Slower, softer movements are usually better. Women, while performing fellatio on a man, should of course keep their teeth away from the man’s penis and use their lips and tongue instead. Both men and women who are performing oral sex should use their hands to enhance the experience. Let your partner lead you with directions, so you know what he or she prefers.
4. Try new positions.
This might seem like an obvious tip, but you’d be surprised by the number of married people who get stuck in a sex rut by performing the same combination of positions over and over again. There is more to sex than missionary and woman on top. You might try reverse cowboy or doggy style or a move you have seen on TV – or anything Sting has talked about doing. The point is to try a new sexual position and see if you and your husband or wife enjoy it.
5. Climax at the same time.
Reaching orgasm at the same time is easier said than done. But if the woman can orgasm (it’s usually more difficult for her) and she gives her husband fair warning that it’s about to happen, he might be able to reach orgasm with her. This intensifies the moment and truly has the two of you feeling like one (not to mention feeling like porn stars). In the end, you’ll probably collapse into each others' arms from exhaustion – and have the best sleep ever.
6. Dress for sex all the time.
Wearing sexy lingerie or silk boxers (or nothing at all) underneath your work clothes or sweats even will help you feel sexy and a little naughty. This will put you in the mood for sex and throughout the day will have you anticipating the moment you finally get to have sex. It will also serve as a lovely surprise as your husband or wife undresses you. White cotton granny panties, after all, can really kill the mood.
7. Be spontaneous.
While some people have to schedule sex to make sure it happens, there is something exhilarating about having sex with your partner unexpectedly. If your husband is in the bathroom getting ready for work and you rub against him, push him against the wall, and give him a kiss and it leads to sex right then and there, you’ll both start the day with a smile. Some couples even enjoy sex in public places. But that can get risky because if you get caught, it’s against the law. Your couch or the kitchen table in the middle of the day might be better alternatives.
8. Use toys or lubricant to enhance the experience.
There’s nothing wrong with bringing a vibrator to bed with you or getting KY Jelly to make sex less painful or simply more stimulating. Some couples enjoy browsing at sex shops together to find items that would improve their sex life. Everything from chocolate body paints to whips and chains is available these days, and with your husband or wife you shouldn’t feel embarrassed. But you should discuss what kinds of things would appeal to both of you and neither of you should feel forced to participate if you’re not comfortable.
9. Indulge in quickies.
In this crazy world, you don’t always have time for marathon sex. That doesn’t mean you should go without. A great quickie on your lunch hour or just before leaving for work can leave you feeling refreshed and satisfied. Ladies, who have trouble reaching orgasm with a quickie, can still find pleasure in the sex and the closeness that they feel to their husband.
10. When in doubt, return to the basics.
There is a certain level of comfort and pleasure that comes with vanilla sex – your run of the mill married sex. You shouldn’t be ashamed if that works for you. When your sex life seems to be stuck or you feel like you’re trying too hard, you should return to the basics – the positions and foreplay that have always worked for your husband or wife and you. If it ain’t broke, after all, you shouldn’t fix it.
Monday, February 27, 2012
10 Great Things to Do With Your Breasts
Sure, you let your breasts roam free when you unhook your bra at night, but you're missing out if that's the only time. "Enjoying your breasts helps you feel confident about your body because you're embracing who you are," says Debby Herbenick, PhD, author of Because It Feels Good. "It also boosts your comfort level during sex, helping you to orgasm more often." There's no arguing with that logic, so we crafted a master list of sexy ways to maximize your assets.
1. Go braless and wear a silk or combed-cotton tee—it'll feel amazing brushing against your skin all day.
2. When you're lounging together on the couch reading or watching TV, guide his hand inside your bra and have him lightly scratch your breasts with his fingertips.
3. Clasp your hands behind your back and pull them away from your body, slowly rotating to the left and right to give the twins a nice stretch.
4. Score a perfect sunless boob tan: Shower and exfoliate, then put a dab of petroleum jelly on your nipples to make sure they keep their natural color. Evenly apply the self-tanning lotion or spray to your tatas, and lean forward for a few minutes to help them dry blotch-free. Then show off your (safely) bronzed twins by hitting up a secluded beach (or ahem, a private yacht like Gisele did) with your guy. Just be sure to ask him to cover your breasts in SPF first.
5. Master the art of using double-sided tape. The secret: Stick one-inch strips of tape a quarter inch away from the edge of your clothes. It keeps everything in place but still looks natural.
6. For a sexy sensation the next time you're getting busy in bed, get your guy to try this technique with his hand: Make a V with his index and middle fingers, and lightly scissor them around your nipples.
7. Overheated at the beach? Slip an ice cube out of your drink, and glide it over your cleavage.
8. This trick really makes your boobs look voluptuous: Stand in front of a mirror under an overhead light, and sweep bronzer over the dark areas underneath and between your breasts. Deepening the shadows that they create gives the impression of greater fullness.
9. Apply lotion, and treat the girls to a sensual massage. Using a circular motion and medium pressure, rub from the base of your boobs up along the outer edges, stopping just below your armpits. Then place your hands on your breastbone, and work your way across the center of your chest, out toward the sides of your body.
10. Have him trace a figure eight stretching around both nipples while giving you a deep, steamy kiss.
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Oral Sex - Tips on Giving and Receiving Oral Sex
While oral sex has been around probably as long as humans have had genitals and tongues, most survey data suggests that we’re engaging in more oral sex now than ever before. Some people might find that a troublesome fact, but as long as its safe and consensual oral sex has earned its seat at the table place of healthy sexual activities. Find out more about oral sex history, terminology, safety and techniques by exploring the links below.
Oral Sex Quiz
Test your baseline oral sex knowledge and pick up at least a few facts that will wow them at your next sexually charged dinner party.
Whether you’re a newbie or just looking to raise your skill level up a notch, these fellatio tips should have him standing up and taking notice. In case you don’t own a pair yourself, don’t forget to start with a tour of male genital anatomy. There’s nothing like knowing your way around a place to make a trip more engaging. If you've got the basics covered you can skip ahead to advanced fellatio technique.
Oral Sex Tips for Women
Brush up on your cunnilingus skills and if you’re not an owner of the equipment learn a bit more about female genital anatomy. Getting a lay of the land is crucial in knowing where to set up camp (okay, these double entendres aren’t really working anymore).If you've got the basics covered, skip ahead to advanced cunnilingus technique.
Oral Sex Positions
Love oral sex but finding your patterns a bit routine? Change up your oral sex position and discover new possibilities for touch and oral sex, and if you like explore the power dynamics that underlie this intense experience of giving and receiving.
Oral Sex and STDs
If you think sharp teeth and facial hair are the most dangerous thing you’ll encounter during oral sex you need to think again. The good news is that when you know what you’re doing, oral sex can be a very low risk sexual activity.
Oral Sex Videos
If you're looking for inspiration you and straight talk about oral sex these adult sex education videos are all recommended. Ranging in quality and explicitness each of these videos adds to the oral sex discussion, and many do so in a highly arousing way.
Saturday, February 25, 2012
10 Sex tips to improve your sexual life
As long as you're talking and listening to each other, you're well on the way to a healthy sex life. However, even the most contented lovers can have fun trying new things, so here are some ideas.
1. Build anticipation
Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever feels right for you. But avoid orgasm. At the end of the week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any kind of sex you like. This week may help to heighten your senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share when you’re having sex.
2. Massage
Massage can help you have very sensual sex. As part of foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal intensifies. But a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will familiarise (or refamiliarise) you with your partner’s body, reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you. If you don’t want a massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.
3. The senses
Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch. Scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and the sounds that they make. Taste each other as you kiss. If you both want to, you could mix food and sex - feed each other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries.
4. Whisper
Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions, whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. A sexy phone call leave both of you looking forward to the event for hours or days. This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you send them to the right person, and remember that your employer has the right to access your work email.
5. Masturbation
Masturbation, by yourself or with your partner, can be a bonus for your sex life. Exploring your own body and sexual responses means that you can share this knowledge with your partner. Masturbating your partner can help you learn more about what turns them on. It can also be a useful option if one of you doesn’t feel like full penetrative sex, or if you have different levels of desire. Talk about it with your partner.
6. Sex toys
If you and your partner both feel comfortable with it, using sex toys can be an arousing thing to do together. Some people use vibrators (and more) as an enjoyable part of their sex life. If you’ve never thought about using sex toys before, how do you feel about trying them? You can buy them online or in sex shops.
7. Read a book
There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender, sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish you’d done it years ago.
8. Share fantasies and desires
Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you can make the most of them.
9. Keep it clean
We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is fine, as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty smells and tastes.
10. Relax
Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great sex may come and find you.
1. Build anticipation
Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever feels right for you. But avoid orgasm. At the end of the week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any kind of sex you like. This week may help to heighten your senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share when you’re having sex.
2. Massage
Massage can help you have very sensual sex. As part of foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal intensifies. But a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will familiarise (or refamiliarise) you with your partner’s body, reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you. If you don’t want a massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.
3. The senses
Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch. Scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and the sounds that they make. Taste each other as you kiss. If you both want to, you could mix food and sex - feed each other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries.
4. Whisper
Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions, whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. A sexy phone call leave both of you looking forward to the event for hours or days. This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you send them to the right person, and remember that your employer has the right to access your work email.
5. Masturbation
Masturbation, by yourself or with your partner, can be a bonus for your sex life. Exploring your own body and sexual responses means that you can share this knowledge with your partner. Masturbating your partner can help you learn more about what turns them on. It can also be a useful option if one of you doesn’t feel like full penetrative sex, or if you have different levels of desire. Talk about it with your partner.
6. Sex toys
If you and your partner both feel comfortable with it, using sex toys can be an arousing thing to do together. Some people use vibrators (and more) as an enjoyable part of their sex life. If you’ve never thought about using sex toys before, how do you feel about trying them? You can buy them online or in sex shops.
7. Read a book
There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender, sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish you’d done it years ago.
8. Share fantasies and desires
Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you can make the most of them.
9. Keep it clean
We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is fine, as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty smells and tastes.
10. Relax
Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great sex may come and find you.
Friday, February 24, 2012
Lady Mag Lies: 5 Common Myths About Female Orgasms
The science of sexuality has come along way since the days experts questioned the basic existence of the female orgasm. In the modern era, the sexual health of women is a major field of study, and most couples devote a great deal of time and attention to her pleasure. But many myths about the female orgasm still exist; in fact, you’d probably be shocked by the sheer volume of potentially harmful misinformation that’s out there. Read on as we dispel some of the female orgasm’s greatest falsehoods.
Myth #1: “Normal” women have orgasms through intercourse alone.
The truth is, only about a third of women regularly experience orgasm through intercourse. Every woman’s body is different, and each has her own special set of needs. For example, roughly another third of women can achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but only with the aid of extra simulation. Some women will never reach orgasm during intercourse at all, but can experience release through manual and oral titillation. Others require her partner to hum “Yakety Sax” over her clitoris. Some women can only get off by timing her thrusts to to an animated GIF of Jon Hamm winking.
Myth #2: It’s possible to orgasm by eating a particularly delicious cup of low-fat yogurt.
Although there are several ways for women to achieve orgasm, placing dairy products into the mouth is not one of them. This myth owes its origin to the yogurt advertising industry, which has produced quite a few commercials showing a woman moaning with pleasure while enjoying a cup of fruit-flavored Yoplait. The women in these advertisements may be experiencing feelings of gratification and even arousal while eating their yogurt, but these sensations cannot accurately be described as orgasms.
Myth #3: “Come Together” by The Beatles is about the female orgasm.
It is not. John Lennon write this song for Timothy Leary when Leary campaigned against Ronald Reagan for the California governorship in 1969. Leary’s campaign platform was marijuana legalization and his campaign slogan was “Come together, join the party.” The latter includes a fun double-entendre, but it’s in reference to the word “party” and not the word “come.”
“(I Can’t Get No) Satisfaction” by The Rolling Stones, on the other hand, is actually about the male orgasm — and in typical rock ‘n’ roll fashion, it discounts the needs of women entirely.
Myth #4: The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by several simultaneous female orgasms.
The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by a rupture in a previously undiscovered blind trust fault located in the San Fernando Valley. The confusion here is twofold. First to blame is the perpetuation of the term “earth-shattering” to describe intense orgasms. This expression is purely symbolic and is not meant to literally describe tectonic shifts in the earth’s core. The second point of confusion lies in the fact that the Valley is the epicenter of the pornography industry. However, the quake occurred at 4:31 A.M., and, believe it or not, porn shoots usually occur during normal working hours. The only L.A. women awake and naked at 4:31 in the morning are desperate actresses fucking fifty-five-year-old industry execs in town from New York City, which means that any “earth-shattering” climaxes that occurring at the time of the quake were obviously faked.
Myth #5: Gwyneth Paltrow has never had an orgasm.
This is also a false rumor. Gwyneth has actually achieved orgasm once in her life, although it was completely by accident. She happened to catch a glimpse of her shiny flaxen hair in the mirror, and, high on two pounds of imported acai, experienced a rush so intense she was left with a wad of goop in her 1200-thread count artisanal Egyptian cotton panties.
Myth #1: “Normal” women have orgasms through intercourse alone.
The truth is, only about a third of women regularly experience orgasm through intercourse. Every woman’s body is different, and each has her own special set of needs. For example, roughly another third of women can achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but only with the aid of extra simulation. Some women will never reach orgasm during intercourse at all, but can experience release through manual and oral titillation. Others require her partner to hum “Yakety Sax” over her clitoris. Some women can only get off by timing her thrusts to to an animated GIF of Jon Hamm winking.
Myth #2: It’s possible to orgasm by eating a particularly delicious cup of low-fat yogurt.
Although there are several ways for women to achieve orgasm, placing dairy products into the mouth is not one of them. This myth owes its origin to the yogurt advertising industry, which has produced quite a few commercials showing a woman moaning with pleasure while enjoying a cup of fruit-flavored Yoplait. The women in these advertisements may be experiencing feelings of gratification and even arousal while eating their yogurt, but these sensations cannot accurately be described as orgasms.
Myth #3: “Come Together” by The Beatles is about the female orgasm.
It is not. John Lennon write this song for Timothy Leary when Leary campaigned against Ronald Reagan for the California governorship in 1969. Leary’s campaign platform was marijuana legalization and his campaign slogan was “Come together, join the party.” The latter includes a fun double-entendre, but it’s in reference to the word “party” and not the word “come.”
“(I Can’t Get No) Satisfaction” by The Rolling Stones, on the other hand, is actually about the male orgasm — and in typical rock ‘n’ roll fashion, it discounts the needs of women entirely.
Myth #4: The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by several simultaneous female orgasms.
The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by a rupture in a previously undiscovered blind trust fault located in the San Fernando Valley. The confusion here is twofold. First to blame is the perpetuation of the term “earth-shattering” to describe intense orgasms. This expression is purely symbolic and is not meant to literally describe tectonic shifts in the earth’s core. The second point of confusion lies in the fact that the Valley is the epicenter of the pornography industry. However, the quake occurred at 4:31 A.M., and, believe it or not, porn shoots usually occur during normal working hours. The only L.A. women awake and naked at 4:31 in the morning are desperate actresses fucking fifty-five-year-old industry execs in town from New York City, which means that any “earth-shattering” climaxes that occurring at the time of the quake were obviously faked.
Myth #5: Gwyneth Paltrow has never had an orgasm.
This is also a false rumor. Gwyneth has actually achieved orgasm once in her life, although it was completely by accident. She happened to catch a glimpse of her shiny flaxen hair in the mirror, and, high on two pounds of imported acai, experienced a rush so intense she was left with a wad of goop in her 1200-thread count artisanal Egyptian cotton panties.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Sex With Your Ex: Always A Bad Idea?
If you asked someone on the street, "Is sex with an ex a good idea?" The answer would likely be a resounding, "No!" In fact, according to our Break Up With Your Ex research, a whopping 81 percent agree that ex sex is always a bad idea. 5 Breakup Myths And Facts
Psychologists, however, seem to disagree. A recently released study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology suggests that sex with a former lover isn't so bad after all.
Researchers observed the post-breakup adjustment of 137 married couples who had recently separated. Many stayed in touch with their former partners, and of those couples, the ones who were still having sex were actually doing better psychologically than those who weren't.
Before you grab your phone and call your last boyfriend, take note of this: "Sexual contact with an ex-partner seems to be associated with better well being for those who aren't over the relationship," says lead author Ashley Mason, a clinical psychology PhD candidate.
That’s right, she said "not over the relationship." So, while the headlines may promote ex sex, it's not a cure-all for everyone. Rather, those who benefitted from the sexual intimacy still felt a psychological attachment to their former partner, and were ultimately "settling" for sex even though they wished to get back together. Doesn't sound like a great deal to me.
The researchers go on to explain that sex with an ex prevents a person from seeking out and finding new relationships, which also elongates the post-breakup healing process.
And you, what do you think?
Psychologists, however, seem to disagree. A recently released study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology suggests that sex with a former lover isn't so bad after all.
Researchers observed the post-breakup adjustment of 137 married couples who had recently separated. Many stayed in touch with their former partners, and of those couples, the ones who were still having sex were actually doing better psychologically than those who weren't.
Before you grab your phone and call your last boyfriend, take note of this: "Sexual contact with an ex-partner seems to be associated with better well being for those who aren't over the relationship," says lead author Ashley Mason, a clinical psychology PhD candidate.
That’s right, she said "not over the relationship." So, while the headlines may promote ex sex, it's not a cure-all for everyone. Rather, those who benefitted from the sexual intimacy still felt a psychological attachment to their former partner, and were ultimately "settling" for sex even though they wished to get back together. Doesn't sound like a great deal to me.
The researchers go on to explain that sex with an ex prevents a person from seeking out and finding new relationships, which also elongates the post-breakup healing process.
And you, what do you think?
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
10 Things you should never say during sex
Your man wants to believe he’s Superman, especially when it comes to his performance in the bedroom. When it comes to spicing things up and communicating your sex needs, get the conversation going in the right direction — UP! — by avoiding these specifics statements that make only make your stud feel like a dud…
1. “You’ve never gotten me off.” Blaming him for your orgasmic difficulties will leave your superhero feeling like a complete zero. The truth is 33-50 percent of women experience orgasm infrequently and 10- 15 percent of us have never even reached the “Big O.” Instead, come up with a list of ways he could make you more comfortable in the boudoir (my personal favorite is a full body massage). Many of our orgasmic problems come from anxiety and worry.
2. “I faked it.” The truth is out! Research has found that 80 percent of women fake orgasm during intercourse at least half of the time, but he definitely does not want to think that you are a part of that statistic. How about you stop faking it altogether and work together on getting there for real?
3. “Are you done already?” Although he may want to last forever, it is not always that easy. Telling him he should last longer will only make him anxious next time, which can lead to premature ejaculation or turn him into Mr. Softee. If he’s done before you are, have him finish you off another way. And if it becomes a recurring issue? It’s time to talk.
4. “It could be bigger.” The biggest thing on his mind is if his member measures up. Never belittle the little, medium or big man. There’s nothing he can do about the junk in his trunks.
5. “You never care about my needs.” Chances are you are a priority, as most men rate their sexual experience highly when they believe they have completely pleased their partner. If your needs aren’t being met, be sure you’ve communicated them clearly. If he genuinely does not care about your needs, don’t waste your breath telling him — cut and run, sister.
6. “My ex did ____ better.” Unless you’re trying to break up with him in the meanest way possible, why? Why would you say this? No.
7. “I’m bored.” Maybe it’s time to try something different, but this statement will only make him believe that you are tired of him and want someone new.
8. “I’d rather use a toy.” Yes, toys can be a lot of fun to play with and you should absolutely experiment with them in the sack, but no one — man or woman – wants to play second fiddle to a battery operated device.
9. “I was with someone else yesterday.” He may not expect you to be the Virgin Queen, but some information is better left unsaid.
10. “Do you think I’m fat?” There is no worse place to deal with self-esteem or body image issues than the sack. He wants you to feel sexy, wanted and beautiful when you are about to get it on — and you should feel like the goddess you are, regardless of any cellulite you have on your butt. Deal with your insecurities at another time or the bad sex that follows will give you even more to worry about.
1. “You’ve never gotten me off.” Blaming him for your orgasmic difficulties will leave your superhero feeling like a complete zero. The truth is 33-50 percent of women experience orgasm infrequently and 10- 15 percent of us have never even reached the “Big O.” Instead, come up with a list of ways he could make you more comfortable in the boudoir (my personal favorite is a full body massage). Many of our orgasmic problems come from anxiety and worry.
2. “I faked it.” The truth is out! Research has found that 80 percent of women fake orgasm during intercourse at least half of the time, but he definitely does not want to think that you are a part of that statistic. How about you stop faking it altogether and work together on getting there for real?
3. “Are you done already?” Although he may want to last forever, it is not always that easy. Telling him he should last longer will only make him anxious next time, which can lead to premature ejaculation or turn him into Mr. Softee. If he’s done before you are, have him finish you off another way. And if it becomes a recurring issue? It’s time to talk.
4. “It could be bigger.” The biggest thing on his mind is if his member measures up. Never belittle the little, medium or big man. There’s nothing he can do about the junk in his trunks.
5. “You never care about my needs.” Chances are you are a priority, as most men rate their sexual experience highly when they believe they have completely pleased their partner. If your needs aren’t being met, be sure you’ve communicated them clearly. If he genuinely does not care about your needs, don’t waste your breath telling him — cut and run, sister.
6. “My ex did ____ better.” Unless you’re trying to break up with him in the meanest way possible, why? Why would you say this? No.
7. “I’m bored.” Maybe it’s time to try something different, but this statement will only make him believe that you are tired of him and want someone new.
8. “I’d rather use a toy.” Yes, toys can be a lot of fun to play with and you should absolutely experiment with them in the sack, but no one — man or woman – wants to play second fiddle to a battery operated device.
9. “I was with someone else yesterday.” He may not expect you to be the Virgin Queen, but some information is better left unsaid.
10. “Do you think I’m fat?” There is no worse place to deal with self-esteem or body image issues than the sack. He wants you to feel sexy, wanted and beautiful when you are about to get it on — and you should feel like the goddess you are, regardless of any cellulite you have on your butt. Deal with your insecurities at another time or the bad sex that follows will give you even more to worry about.
5 Perfectly Good Reasons To Sleep With Him On The First Date
Oh, there are just rules for everything, huh? Floss after every meal! Don’t wear white after Labor Day! If you’re going to pick your nose, do it in private! As Mischa Barton knows, rules are meant to be broken and there’s no bigger one to break, in my book, than that whole “don’t bone a dude on the first date” rule. Sure, there are plenty of decent reasons to resist doing the horizontal mambo right away, but there are just as many to justify dropping your drawers and getting it on tout de suite! Here are five.1. It Might Be Your Only Chance
When I was in college, I had a crazy fire burning in my loins for a guy that I worked with on my college newspaper. I just had to experience some sort of physical intimacy with him, consequences (heartbreak, post-coital awkwardness, etc.) be damned. When the opportunity presented itself — in the form of me getting a little tipsy and pushing him up against a brick wall in order to kiss him — I seized it. I knew full well that my brazen behavior could cost me any further opportunities with him, but I also knew those opportunities were hardly guaranteed. This one time was. So. Worth. It. But I had to be OK with it maybe not being worth it in the first place.
When I was in college, I had a crazy fire burning in my loins for a guy that I worked with on my college newspaper. I just had to experience some sort of physical intimacy with him, consequences (heartbreak, post-coital awkwardness, etc.) be damned. When the opportunity presented itself — in the form of me getting a little tipsy and pushing him up against a brick wall in order to kiss him — I seized it. I knew full well that my brazen behavior could cost me any further opportunities with him, but I also knew those opportunities were hardly guaranteed. This one time was. So. Worth. It. But I had to be OK with it maybe not being worth it in the first place.
2. To Weed Out The Sexists
Some say that a guy won’t take a woman “seriously” if she gives up the cookies on the first date. Guess what? I don’t take guys like this seriously because they are gross, sexist hypocrites who will eventually reveal themselves as such whether you sleep with them on the first date or the 50th — better to find out early, right? Time is a-wastin’!
Some say that a guy won’t take a woman “seriously” if she gives up the cookies on the first date. Guess what? I don’t take guys like this seriously because they are gross, sexist hypocrites who will eventually reveal themselves as such whether you sleep with them on the first date or the 50th — better to find out early, right? Time is a-wastin’!
3. To Get Laid, Duh
Guess what? Women like to have sex too. And sometimes, shocker, we don’t spend hours and hours obsessing over OMG-what-might-happen-if-we-do-it — sometimes we’re … how do I put this … what’s the word? Oh yeah. Horny.
Guess what? Women like to have sex too. And sometimes, shocker, we don’t spend hours and hours obsessing over OMG-what-might-happen-if-we-do-it — sometimes we’re … how do I put this … what’s the word? Oh yeah. Horny.
4. Test Your Sexual Chemistry
And by that I really mean “find out if you’re compatible in bed.” You can spark all you want with someone, but, when push comes to shove, if they can’t get you aroused, you’re in trouble. I really don’t see the point in delaying that inevitable discovery. Do archaeologists spot, like, a dinosaur bone and then say, “You know, I don’t think we should dig it up and identify whether it’s a triceratops or a stegosaurus for another three weeks”? No. They don’t. Don’t try and find flaws with this argument. It’s completely irrefutable.
And by that I really mean “find out if you’re compatible in bed.” You can spark all you want with someone, but, when push comes to shove, if they can’t get you aroused, you’re in trouble. I really don’t see the point in delaying that inevitable discovery. Do archaeologists spot, like, a dinosaur bone and then say, “You know, I don’t think we should dig it up and identify whether it’s a triceratops or a stegosaurus for another three weeks”? No. They don’t. Don’t try and find flaws with this argument. It’s completely irrefutable.
5. Once Is Enough
I have this theory that when men have little boy babies, they sneak into their rooms at night while mom is sleeping and whisper in their tiny, impressionable ears, “When a woman has sex with you, she will always want to come back for more.” Movies like “Fatal Attraction” only reinforce this stereotype that once a woman meets a penis she has to make it her best friend. Seriously, sometimes we’re totally fine and cool with only having sex with someone once. Therefore, fornicating on the first date is just efficient day planner management.
I have this theory that when men have little boy babies, they sneak into their rooms at night while mom is sleeping and whisper in their tiny, impressionable ears, “When a woman has sex with you, she will always want to come back for more.” Movies like “Fatal Attraction” only reinforce this stereotype that once a woman meets a penis she has to make it her best friend. Seriously, sometimes we’re totally fine and cool with only having sex with someone once. Therefore, fornicating on the first date is just efficient day planner management.
Ultimately, only you can decide for yourself if sleeping with a guy on a first date is a good idea for you and what you want from him after the sex is over. Oh, and don’t be stupid. Use a condom. STDs and accidental pregnancies take the fun out of brunch the next morning.
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Watch me
Katie has the sweetest body...creamy skin, a little extra meat on her bones, dark brown hair, big brown eyes, and shapely breasts. I woke up horny one morning, but she said she wasn't up for sex. I started to touch myself, working a slow rhythm. Katie asked what she could do to help. Not wanting to pass up the opportunity I asked her to straddle me and play with her soft round breasts.
We'd never done something like that before, and I was pleased when she went along with it. Her thighs hugged mine as she rubbed her breasts while staring into my eyes. She would smile slightly and pinch her dark-pink nipples. The hardened nipples rolling between her thumb and forefinger were a wonderful encouragement. She cooed and sighed for me, and would lift her hips slightly as I stroked. She cupped her breasts, pinched her nipples, and ran her hands up and down her sides.
Occasionally, I would brush my fist against the front of her panties and she would tilt her head up and sigh. I began to jerk my hips at the sight of her hands pressing into her breasts, and I closed my eyes. As I came, she bent forward causing my cum to splash onto her breasts and drip down off her rock-hard nipples. As she stood up I began to tell her who great that was, and she slowly pulled of her panties. Katie got back on top of me and guided me into her hot, wet pussy. She felt incredible, and I was hard again in an instant. She pushed down on me a few times, with her rosy breasts bouncing gently.
Soon she rolled over and I spread her thighs and pushed past her beautiful swollen lips. She continued to squeeze and caress her breasts as I stroked in and out faster. She was burning up inside, and her wetness was heavenly. Katie's face grew flush and she began to moan loudly. She bit her lower lip and pinched her nipples furiously as I pounded into her. She clamped her legs tight around my waist and ground her hips hard against mine. In an instant she yelled out and arched her back up high as I thrust into her as deep and as fast as I could. She shook and moaned and touched herself all over, and finally I came again shooting deep into her tight and throbbing pussy.
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We'd never done something like that before, and I was pleased when she went along with it. Her thighs hugged mine as she rubbed her breasts while staring into my eyes. She would smile slightly and pinch her dark-pink nipples. The hardened nipples rolling between her thumb and forefinger were a wonderful encouragement. She cooed and sighed for me, and would lift her hips slightly as I stroked. She cupped her breasts, pinched her nipples, and ran her hands up and down her sides.
Occasionally, I would brush my fist against the front of her panties and she would tilt her head up and sigh. I began to jerk my hips at the sight of her hands pressing into her breasts, and I closed my eyes. As I came, she bent forward causing my cum to splash onto her breasts and drip down off her rock-hard nipples. As she stood up I began to tell her who great that was, and she slowly pulled of her panties. Katie got back on top of me and guided me into her hot, wet pussy. She felt incredible, and I was hard again in an instant. She pushed down on me a few times, with her rosy breasts bouncing gently.
Soon she rolled over and I spread her thighs and pushed past her beautiful swollen lips. She continued to squeeze and caress her breasts as I stroked in and out faster. She was burning up inside, and her wetness was heavenly. Katie's face grew flush and she began to moan loudly. She bit her lower lip and pinched her nipples furiously as I pounded into her. She clamped her legs tight around my waist and ground her hips hard against mine. In an instant she yelled out and arched her back up high as I thrust into her as deep and as fast as I could. She shook and moaned and touched herself all over, and finally I came again shooting deep into her tight and throbbing pussy.
Source: truedirtystories
Monday, February 20, 2012
Close Encounter in the Car
I have met the sexist man ever on the Internet. We started chatting on a Sunday night and the conversation got sexy fast. We finally decided to talk to each other on the phone. We talked all night and it was great - sharing each other's sexy stories, etc. We met the next night for drinks. He was a good-looking man, with the most intense eyes.
After two rounds and some kissing, he started to rub my pussy through my pantyhose. I was so hot and juicy wet and wanted to "play" with him in the car. We had the most exciting car sex. He immediately starting deep-throat kissing me and kissing my neck, while pulling and tugging on my nipples. He rubbed my pussy through my pantyhose and I was so wet.
I took my pantyhose and panties down and told him I wanted him to fuck me hard in his back seat. He threw my leg over his shoulder and entered my wet hot pussy. While pumping in and out, he deep-throat kissed me and I told him how fucking hot his cock felt in me. I grabbed his balls and held on till he came inside me. Then I started to lick and suck and nibble his still engorged cock with my pussy juices on it. He fingered my pussy and ass as he came in my mouth. Great lover. The next time we met I did anal and that’s another story.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Sunday, February 19, 2012
After-Party Whoopee
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Let's go swimming
We came close to being caught a few times, but our sex life was nothing daring, except this day. We were swimming in the local swimming pool with my kids happily swimming around with their friends and the pool quite packed because of the severe heat. I wrapped my legs around his front and floated on my back to relax. His hand gently started massaging me, and the next thing he had pulled my swimsuit to the side and was inside me! He walked up and down the pool with me attached, with the water on my back pushing me onto him. I constantly looked around to see if anybody was looking but everybody was doing their own thing. This continued with us for about 10mins, until finally he took me into neck-deep water, pulled me to him, buried his face in my neck as he groaned, and I felt his heat inside of me. It was fantastic.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Relief on the Road
I had been teasing my fiancé for a while at home. I would kiss his neck, slip my hand down his pants, and play with him until he got hard. Then I would stop altogether. I would do this off and on for a few hours at home. Then it was time for us to go out on our date. He was so worked up from me playing with his cock that he had become grumpy. So we got in the car and I started feeling bad for turning him on and then not making him cum. As soon as he pulled out of the driveway, I undid his pants and pulled out his throbbing cock. I leaned over and slowly slid my mouth down his shaft. He groaned extremely loudly out of appreciation. I then added my hands, giving him a blow job and a hand job alternately. He could barely keep the car on the road or his eyes on the traffic, but that's what made it so much fun. He came so extremely hard as his cum hit the back of my throat. Sometimes I still give him this extra treat while he's driving, just to let him know how much I love his cock.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Early to Rise
I talked to my boyfriend on the phone the night before and he suggested that I go to his house early in the morning so that he parents wouldn't know a thing. I got to his house at 3 am the next morning. I sneaked in we went to his bedroom. We both lay in bed, I was on top of him and we were both in complete darkness.
Then he started to feel my breasts, rubbing my nipples and playing with them. He moved down and put his hands into my pants and started to stroke my clit. I started to moan as he bit, licked and sucked on my neck. I reached down behind to feel his cock. I turned around and started to straddle and rub my pussy against his bulging pants. I slowly took his clothes off and he took mine off. I continued to ride on his cock, on the outside spreading my juices all over while he squeezed and played with my ass with his hands and fingers. At that time he sucked and nibbled my nipples hard. we tried not to make too much noise as his parents could hear. He couldn't take it anymore and rammed his hard cock hard into my pussy. He pumped harder and harder. my brain was about to explode with the pleasure. Pumping his meat into me hard while devouring my breasts. He came in me, and I felt his juices go all over inside of me. My head was whizzing and I soon came. Soon after we lay in his bed exhausted and breathing hard, while I was still stroking and teasing his red hot cock.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Office Fling
We both worked in the same department at work along with my husband, but we'd had an ongoing flirtation for months. My husband works the day shift, but I work the night shift along with my fling. One night, we finally admitted to each other how much we both wanted to take things further and ended up having cybersex over IM at work. The next night, we had our regular "date" to hang out, and we thought we'd be alone. Unfortunately, one of his old friends showed up in town earlier than expected, and given my marital status, we had to keep things contained. But I couldn't take my eyes off him. When I stepped outside for some air, my coworker followed me and we ended up having a heavy makeout session in his backyard.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
He Totally Understood
I had been dating Elliot for a few weeks, but we had never gotten very physical. Yesterday, as I was getting ready for out date I realized I would have to make the first move. I carefully selected matching panties and a bra and smiled as I imagined fucking him. We went to dinner, and to see Planet of the Apes, and I couldn't wait to get him back to my house. When we finally got home and he went to kiss me good night, I pressed myself against him and told him I didn't want the night to end yet.
I led him inside to my bedroom and gave him a look that meant, "come here and fuck my brains out." Lucky for me, he totally understood. We passionately kissed and as out tongue wrapped around each other, I unzipped his fly. He had the most beautiful, huge, throbbing cock I have ever seen...he licked my nipples, pulled my hips to him...sucked my clit...pushed his tongue deep deep into my wet and warm cunt...I couldn't believe it, he knew how to give head like it was his profession. He sucked me until I screamed out his name in the pleasure of my orgasm.
Then, I slid down him and proceeded to suck on his huge manroot. I sucked and pushed his cock deep into my mouth, swallowing his wad of cum which quickly shot out. Next I decided I couldn't take it any longer, his hard prick had to go inside me. Elliot mounted me and slowly moved his penis around the opening of my wet pussy. My entire body ached for him and his teasing was too much, I screamed " come on, FUCK ME!!!" And with that, he took his hard dick and plowed it into my tiny cunt...I gasped with the pain and pleasure I felt in that instant. He humped and humped and I moved my hips to meet him. His incredible meat pushed deep into my pussy making me scream and yell with pleasure. I just couldn't get enough...I sucked his tongue as he rammed his cock in me....and I placed my hands on his butt and helped him ram it in super deep. Soon we were both ready to cum and we humped in unison until we yelled and tensed up at the exact same second...my pussy tightened around his throbbing cock, and he came with a huge thrust...I could feel his cum in me...warm and wet...As he slowly pulled his semi hard cock out of me my pussy remained tight around it...I wanted him in me forever, I was the hottest night of my life, and he made me cum 3 more times...Elliot, I am your sex slave baby!
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Friday, February 17, 2012
Laundromat Sexcapade
We were alone at the laundromat. I told him I wanted him to come to the bathroom with me. He looked a little confused but he came anyway. I locked the door behind us and flicked off the light. I pulled up my shirt and undid my bra. He grabbed my tits and started sucking on my nipples while I grabbed his hardness through his pants.
I knelt down and undid his belt and pulled his pants down. Then I took a hold of his throbbing meat and started licking the head. He moaned quietly as I took the rest of it into my mouth and softly sucked. I deepthroated him a couple times until we heard someone come in the door right next to the bathroom.
We then decided our little sexcapade was over for a little while until we got home. But the whole time we were folding clothes we had grins on our faces cause we knew what we had been doing just a few minutes earlier and what we would be doing once we got home.
Source: truedirtystories
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We Became Obvious
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Layover Quickie
My boyfriend comes from a small town originally, 1000 km from where we live now. Last holidays he went home to see his family for a month, but after 3 weeks I couldn't take it anymore and I caught the plane up to see him. He was picking up me and his aunt from the airport at the same time, but he text messaged me just before I boarded the plane to say that his aunt's plane was delayed by two hours and that we'd "have to kill the time somehow" between 9 and 11pm. It was the longest flight of my life. We grabbed something to eat and sat in the car at the beach eating it, but neither of us could take the politeness much longer, and I put my hand on his thigh and kissed him. He stopped me and started up the engine, taking us somewhere more private. The front seat was awkward, so I climbed over the back, giving him a good view of my g-string underneath my purposefully chosen skirt. He got out of the car and walked around then, and he'd barely closed the door as he ripped off my panties and pushed his rock-hard cock into my wet pussy, which was tighter than ever from 3 weeks without a good hard fuck. After we came, he went down on me, and I soaked the car seat as both our juices poured out of me. We had to make sure that his aunt sat on the other side!
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Monday, February 13, 2012
Sex in the Break Room
I live almost an hour away from my boyfriend so it's hard to see each other often. One day I went to see him at his work. It was a Sunday so hardly anyone came in and he was pretty much the only person there. There is a "break room" that he led me into. We first started making out...feeling....touching...then he asked me if I wanted to see his cock. Of course I did. There it was, big and hard. I started to jerk him off, slowly but faster and faster as we went. Before I knew it I had his cock in my mouth. It tasted so good and so warm. After a while he unzipped my pants and started fingering my pussy. I jerked him off as he fingered my pussy. We came together. It was sooo good and so hot because any minute someone could have walked in on us.
Source: truedirtystories
Source: truedirtystories
Thursday, February 9, 2012
How ‘Bout I Give You a 'Present'?
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In the Changing Room
My boyfriend and I were in a big department store. I saw this really nice dress and decided I would try it on. As I put the dress on, I called out to my boyfriend to ask him if the dress looked nice on me. We were feeling rather horny from the night before but had fallen asleep then. My boyfriend asked me to turn around so he could check my ass out in the black and white dress, and as I did he bent me over so I was facing the curtain-like door and holding it at each side to stop people from seeing in. While we were in that position, he did me from behind and came inside of me within moments. From every direction I could hear people, and I’m sure they knew what was going on due to all the moaning and groaning. When we were done, I went and bought the dress and every time I wear it we fuck like there’s no tomorrow.
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Source: truedirtystories
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