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Give Him a Hand

My sexy wife whom I am very fortunate to have loves to give me handjobs. She loves to see the look of pure delight on my face, apparently, and I of course do not mind at all. Her blowjobs, also, are heavenly. My favorite time when these two mixed was when we had just come in from swimming at the pool in our apartment complex. We were both cold from the water and the cool air, but we were both horny as hell (we had been seriously messing around in the pool), and we needed it bad. She took off both of our clothes, and her breasts were firm and perky from the cold, which turned me on even more. She sat down on the couch and stood me in front of her and took my member in her mouth. Oh god! My dick was so cold, and yet her mouth was so very warm, it was hot. I felt as though my third leg was being pulled through wet, warm silk. She sucked me until I almost came, then she laid down on her back on the floor, pulled me on top of her on my hands and knees, soaked her hands with baby oil, and gave me the best handjob she had ever done. I came all over her chest and her face. I took me a while to wind down from that one, and I will remember it until the day I die.

How do I give my guy a hand job!!

Pleasuring your man manually — whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself — is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his penis. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow,steady motion.

Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon.

You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a ring with your thumb and forefinger at the base of his shaft and gently tug downward, while simultaneously fondling his TLC-craving testicles with your other hand. Another make-his-toes-curl strategy: Handle his member with both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head'll spin. Or, wrap both hands around his member and move them in opposite directions as you work your way up and down his shaft. As he nears orgasm, continue stroking his shaft with one hand, while you gently massage his perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between his anus and testicles) with the pointer and middle fingers of your other hand.

You'll set him on fire. Since no two guys are alike, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge. Just ask him what feels good. Or, have him give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to stimulate himself, then follow his lead. Remember, just as important as technique is attitude, so try not to get hung up on "performance anxiety" and have fun. The fact that you're so willing to please your man is as big a turn-on as any hand job.

How to share your deepest fantasies

Have a clear sense of what your fantasies are about what you are trying to achieve before talking to your partner.

Tell your partner what you enjoy about your current sex life. This strategy is called ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ and instead of identifying problems and solving them, starts by celebrating what does work and ask: how can we make things even better? Share your fantasy or the desired new ingredient for your sexual repertoire

Ask about your partner’s ideas and personal fantasies

When discussing difficult subjects – especially when we fear rejection – it is easy to hear an outright NO when our partner means MAYBE or YES but with reservations.

Accept that your partner will have different fantasies and just because yours and his or hers are not identical, is not a catastrophe. Give each other the benefit of the doubt when something is unclear or uncertain and keep talking.

Be flexible. Your fantasy does not have to be realised 100 per cent. Maybe your partner’s reservations will prompt a rethink and promote ideas which could be even more satisfying.

How to 69?

When your guy is on top during simultaneous oral sex, try pleasing him without taking his entire shaft in your mouth. Lick and kiss the head of his penis, or run your tongue up and down the length of the shaft paying special attention to the supersensitive frenulum -- the thin ridge on the underside of the penis. You'll launch his libido into the stratosphere if you use your hands to massage his testicles and perineum -- the nerve-packed patch of skin between his balls and his back door -- in conjunction with your mouth moves. You could also have your man hover over you on all fours -- with his knees by your ears -- instead of lying directly on top, which will give you more room to roam his hot spots. Although your guy likes to be on top, there are other 69 positions that can be just as mutually satisfying. Why not switch to the woman-on-top pose?
The pleasure plus for you is being able to control the intensity of oral pressure against your clitoris by how hard you press against him. Or, try the side-by-side configuration: Lie on your sides, with your mouths directly in front of each other's genitals. Bend your top legs at the knee and put your feet flat on the mattress. Then you can rest your heads on the lower thigh. It make take some minor modifications before your bodies comfortably mesh, but the beauty of this position is being able to watch the other get off -- which can be mind-blowingly sexy.

How to have sex on the beach!

Before you pack your beach bag, though, check out our guide to summer loving on the sand.

Rule No. 1: Watch out for crabs!

Stake out your spot. Having the waves lap at your toes may sound sexy, but the closer you are to the water, the more exposed you'll be. Sandy sexing requires a little groundwork. Look for a semi-private spot near a dune or large rock; a little cove would be ideal.

You might also want to consider clearing away any litter, sharp shells, or driftwood that could wreak havoc later on. And don't forget to check the tide report -- there's nothing like a wild wave (or fatal undertow) to dampen your night of passion.

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Wait for nightfall. Yeah, sorry, but unless you want to be thrown in jail (don't laugh -- this couple got jail time), you really can't get down until a) it's pitch black outside and b) desolate.

Bring your supplies. Be prepared: You'll need a towel or blanket to avoid the dreaded sand-crotch syndrome; a backup towel for emergency clean-ups or "Hey, what are you guys doing down there?" moments; a plastic bag for your used condom (leave no trace -- please); a bottle of water for washing off sand; and Purell.

Bring a flashlight in case you need it but avoid using it if possible -- it can draw attention. You may also want to pre-set your cell's alarm set to rouse you a bit later -- a post-coital doze interrupted by a leering fisherman or angry cop is not hot.

Know what to leave behind. Sticky lubricant + sticky sand = no fun, so leave the lube at home and warm each other up the old-fashioned way.
Dress for the occasion. Getting buck-naked may be hotter, but the more time you spend fumbling with your clothes, the greater your risk of getting caught. Elastic-waist swim shorts are a good easy-on-easy-off option for guys, while gals should opt for skirts or dresses -- you can hike it up, sit on him and still look clothed should anyone mosey by.

Avoid the water. Yes, we know it looks hot in movies. The downside is that

1) water sex is awkward,
2) water sex can dry you out (if you know what we mean), and
3) water sex puts you in close contact with sharp shells, riptides, random sea creatures, and evil jellyfish (unless you like golden showers). And need we remind you of the opening scene of "Jaws"?

Get in and get out. Hopefully the thrill of being in public will help you both reach climax quickly. If the sand is fine or hard-packed, missionary or side-to-side are good choices. If the sand's uneven or sinking, you might have to be creative (maybe have him sit on a cooler while you ride on top). Doggy-style works on most surfaces but is tougher to play off if you're caught.
Once you're done, clean up and leave the scene of the crime within 10 minutes. Take a long shower as soon as you get home to remove any sand from your treasure chest.

The Love Seat!

Erotic Instructions:
Tell your partner to lie back, propping up his head and shoulders with a pillow, and have him spread his legs slightly. While you're facing the same direction — your back is to his face — lower yourself onto his hardened penis. Put your feet between his legs on the floor or the bed. Take your right hand and place it on his right hip bone and your left hand on the bed next to his left hip bone. Use your hands and feet to move your body up and down on his shaft.


Why You'll Love It:
The movement of your seat is the key to the Love Seat. With both your hands and feet controlling your motion, ride your behind up and down at a pace that feels best. While you're doing all the work, give your man's hands a pleasure project and have him massage your butt, back, neck, and other sexy spots he doesn't always have access to.

How do I do, a good, reverse cowgirl?

Have your guy lie on his back and, facing his feet, straddle him with your knees on either side of his hips. Or, if it's more comfortable, squat over him with your feet flat on the bed. When he's nice and hard (and you're well lubricated), place one hand on the bed or his legs to steady yourself, as you hold the base of his penis with your other hand, and slowly lower yourself onto him.

Once he's securely inside of you, start moving up and down, using your leg muscles to build momentum. You can help maintain your balance by placing your hands in front of you (on his legs or the bed), or reach back and put your hands on his thighs. One of the major perks of any girl-on-top position: You're in control, so mix things up and do whatever feels best. You can vary the speed and depth of penetration. Or play with your movements by gyrating back and forth or in circles instead of just up and down. At some point, try arching your back, which allows his member to stimulate your G-spot. And, since you have easy access to your clitoris, give yourself a hand if you need it.

Reverse cowgirl offers some benefits for your man as well. For starters, he gets some sweet eye candy with that amazing view of your butt. And you'll really turn him on if you play with his testicles as you grind him. Guys also get off on females taking charge, but that doesn't mean that you have to do all the work. If you start getting tired, have him wrap his hands around your hips to help with the thrusting. But make sure you don't bounce too hard or lean too far forward, or you could cause some serious damage to his manhood. And if he happens to slip out at any point, simply put him back in and keep going.

Three Things that Get in the Way of Your Orgasm

Stalling out when you’re thisclose to a thigh-quaking climax is not the ideal way to end a sack session. So why does it happen to so many women? Blame a “cognitive distraction”—which is just fancy science-speak for any thoughts that can throw you off your game. “Many women have to be focused and in the right mind-set in order to orgasm,” says Megan Fleming, PhD, of greatlifegreatsex.com. “When an intrusive or negative thought pops into your head, it can be almost impossible to get past it.” Here are the top three mental mojo killers, plus advice on how to block them from your brain so you cross that finish line every time.

“I have like, two years worth of laundry to do”
Women are especially prone to running through their to-do list—I need to send so and so that email, this room needs a serious tidying-up—at inopportune times, says Fleming. Once the monologue gets going, however, it’s difficult to shut it down. So prevent it from happening in the first place by removing visual cues, like your laundry basket or laptop, that might set it off before you and your guy start getting into it. Out of sight really is out of mind.

“What is taking so damn long?!”
Stressing over when, when, when your big O will happen is the grand finale’s kryptonite. This train of thought is what’s known as “spectatoring,” says Fleming: You’re observing yourself in the moment, rather than being present in it. The solution: Take a deep breath—when we’re tense, we tend to hold our breath without even realizing it, and some studies show that inhaling and exhaling in a way that mimics the breathing pattern of an orgasm can help bring one on. Then describe what you’re thinking or feeling out loud, even in a whisper. For instance, “I love when you move your tongue like that” or “Your body feels amazing on top of mine.” You’ll start experiencing pleasure rather than anticipating it.

“I am jiggling up a storm in this angle.” 
Girl-on-top may be one of the most surefire ways to get off, since it puts you in the driver’s seat. But it’s not always the most forgiving position in the world—especially after a big dinner. Here’s the thing: Whether you’re self-conscious about your jiggly tummy or some other body part, your guy isn’t even noticing it—he’s focusing on how awesome you look and how good you feel. If that doesn’t keep you from slipping into negativity mode, tweak your positioning. For example, stay in girl on top but extend yourself over your guy, so your body is less visible, or go with side-by-side booty, which covers you up yet keeps your hands free so you still have sexy control.

Oral Sex Tips - How to Give Oral Sex

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How can I help my guy improve his oral-sex technique?

The only way to have a truly satisfying sex life is to let your guy know what does -- and doesn't -- turn you on. And, despite your fear of hurting his feelings, most men appreciate in-the-sack advice because knowing they're getting you off gets them off, too. So ask for what you want. That doesn't mean flat-out telling him that his oral techniques, well, suck. But, next time he's giving you some below-the-belt TLC, say something like, "It would feel so good if you'd lick me a little harder," or faster, or whatever the case may be. Or, you could suggest playing a sexy game of follow-the-leader. The rules: First, you go down on him using the kinds of tongue movements you'd like him to use on you. Then, when it's his turn, ask him to pleasure you the same way.
You can also teach him how to please you by using body language. If you want more pressure, push your pelvis toward his mouth or nudge his head in closer; for less pressure, move slightly away from him or gently push his head back a little bit. If he isn't hitting the bull's-eye, make a V with your index and middle finger and place it around the spot you want him to lick. More ways to direct him with your digits: Pull back the skin on yourclitoral hood, which will encourage him to lavish attention on your clitoris, or cover it with your finger if it's too sensitive for direct contact.

Of course, it's just as important to clue him in when he's doing something right. So tell him when he makes a move that sends shivers up your spine. Just saying, "That feels sooo good," or letting out a satisfied moan willdo the trick. It shouldn't take him long to catch on. And when he does, there'll be a passion payoff for both of you.

10 Ways to Improve Your Sex life

Sex is not rocket science, which means anyone can be good at it, and we can all keep improving our skills. In fact, getting better at sex is part of a married person’s job because good sex is part of the foundation of a good marriage. Here are 10 ways – from the basic to the more advanced – to spice up your sex life:


1. Talk to your spouse more.
In addition to talking about sex and sharing your sexual fantasies, you and your husband or wife should talk more in general. Improving your communication and speaking with one another more frequently will make you feel closer to one another. That will make you more intimate and probably less inhibited in the bedroom – or wherever you prefer to have sex.


2. Spend more time on foreplay.
Sex should be something to which you look forward. Foreplay is what gets you excited and anticipating the main event. It doesn’t have to be limited to the 15 minutes before you’d like to have sex. You could start the day with sexy text messages (think MMS with a revealing photo or an e-mail expressing how hot your husband looked as you both left for work).


3. Get better at oral sex.
Foreplay often ends with both partners performing oral sex on one another. Sometimes, people take oral sex for granted, but it can be quite pleasurable and can really put people, especially women, in the mood for sex. When performing cunnilingus on a woman, men should refrain from making jabbing movements with their tongue. Slower, softer movements are usually better. Women, while performing fellatio on a man, should of course keep their teeth away from the man’s penis and use their lips and tongue instead. Both men and women who are performing oral sex should use their hands to enhance the experience. Let your partner lead you with directions, so you know what he or she prefers.


4. Try new positions.
This might seem like an obvious tip, but you’d be surprised by the number of married people who get stuck in a sex rut by performing the same combination of positions over and over again. There is more to sex than missionary and woman on top. You might try reverse cowboy or doggy style or a move you have seen on TV – or anything Sting has talked about doing. The point is to try a new sexual position and see if you and your husband or wife enjoy it.


5. Climax at the same time.
Reaching orgasm at the same time is easier said than done. But if the woman can orgasm (it’s usually more difficult for her) and she gives her husband fair warning that it’s about to happen, he might be able to reach orgasm with her. This intensifies the moment and truly has the two of you feeling like one (not to mention feeling like porn stars). In the end, you’ll probably collapse into each others' arms from exhaustion – and have the best sleep ever.


6. Dress for sex all the time.
Wearing sexy lingerie or silk boxers (or nothing at all) underneath your work clothes or sweats even will help you feel sexy and a little naughty. This will put you in the mood for sex and throughout the day will have you anticipating the moment you finally get to have sex. It will also serve as a lovely surprise as your husband or wife undresses you. White cotton granny panties, after all, can really kill the mood.


7. Be spontaneous.
While some people have to schedule sex to make sure it happens, there is something exhilarating about having sex with your partner unexpectedly. If your husband is in the bathroom getting ready for work and you rub against him, push him against the wall, and give him a kiss and it leads to sex right then and there, you’ll both start the day with a smile. Some couples even enjoy sex in public places. But that can get risky because if you get caught, it’s against the law. Your couch or the kitchen table in the middle of the day might be better alternatives.


8. Use toys or lubricant to enhance the experience.
There’s nothing wrong with bringing a vibrator to bed with you or getting KY Jelly to make sex less painful or simply more stimulating. Some couples enjoy browsing at sex shops together to find items that would improve their sex life. Everything from chocolate body paints to whips and chains is available these days, and with your husband or wife you shouldn’t feel embarrassed. But you should discuss what kinds of things would appeal to both of you and neither of you should feel forced to participate if you’re not comfortable.


9. Indulge in quickies.
In this crazy world, you don’t always have time for marathon sex. That doesn’t mean you should go without. A great quickie on your lunch hour or just before leaving for work can leave you feeling refreshed and satisfied. Ladies, who have trouble reaching orgasm with a quickie, can still find pleasure in the sex and the closeness that they feel to their husband.


10. When in doubt, return to the basics.
There is a certain level of comfort and pleasure that comes with vanilla sex – your run of the mill married sex. You shouldn’t be ashamed if that works for you. When your sex life seems to be stuck or you feel like you’re trying too hard, you should return to the basics – the positions and foreplay that have always worked for your husband or wife and you. If it ain’t broke, after all, you shouldn’t fix it.

10 Great Things to Do With Your Breasts

Sure, you let your breasts roam free when you unhook your bra at night, but you're missing out if that's the only time. "Enjoying your breasts helps you feel confident about your body because you're embracing who you are," says Debby Herbenick, PhD, author of Because It Feels Good. "It also boosts your comfort level during sex, helping you to orgasm more often." There's no arguing with that logic, so we crafted a master list of sexy ways to maximize your assets.


1. Go braless and wear a silk or combed-cotton tee—it'll feel amazing brushing against your skin all day.


2. When you're lounging together on the couch reading or watching TV, guide his hand inside your bra and have him lightly scratch your breasts with his fingertips.


3. Clasp your hands behind your back and pull them away from your body, slowly rotating to the left and right to give the twins a nice stretch.


4. Score a perfect sunless boob tan: Shower and exfoliate, then put a dab of petroleum jelly on your nipples to make sure they keep their natural color. Evenly apply the self-tanning lotion or spray to your tatas, and lean forward for a few minutes to help them dry blotch-free. Then show off your (safely) bronzed twins by hitting up a secluded beach (or ahem, a private yacht like Gisele did) with your guy. Just be sure to ask him to cover your breasts in SPF first.


5. Master the art of using double-sided tape. The secret: Stick one-inch strips of tape a quarter inch away from the edge of your clothes. It keeps everything in place but still looks natural.


6. For a sexy sensation the next time you're getting busy in bed, get your guy to try this technique with his hand: Make a V with his index and middle fingers, and lightly scissor them around your nipples.


7. Overheated at the beach? Slip an ice cube out of your drink, and glide it over your cleavage.


8. This trick really makes your boobs look voluptuous: Stand in front of a mirror under an overhead light, and sweep bronzer over the dark areas underneath and between your breasts. Deepening the shadows that they create gives the impression of greater fullness.


9. Apply lotion, and treat the girls to a sensual massage. Using a circular motion and medium pressure, rub from the base of your boobs up along the outer edges, stopping just below your armpits. Then place your hands on your breastbone, and work your way across the center of your chest, out toward the sides of your body.


10. Have him trace a figure eight stretching around both nipples while giving you a deep, steamy kiss.

Oral Sex - Tips on Giving and Receiving Oral Sex

While oral sex has been around probably as long as humans have had genitals and tongues, most survey data suggests that we’re engaging in more oral sex now than ever before. Some people might find that a troublesome fact, but as long as its safe and consensual oral sex has earned its seat at the table place of healthy sexual activities. Find out more about oral sex history, terminology, safety and techniques by exploring the links below.


Oral Sex Quiz 
Test your baseline oral sex knowledge and pick up at least a few facts that will wow them at your next sexually charged dinner party.

Oral Sex Tips for Men
Whether you’re a newbie or just looking to raise your skill level up a notch, these fellatio tips should have him standing up and taking notice. In case you don’t own a pair yourself, don’t forget to start with a tour of male genital anatomy. There’s nothing like knowing your way around a place to make a trip more engaging. If you've got the basics covered you can skip ahead to advanced fellatio technique.


Oral Sex Tips for Women
Brush up on your cunnilingus skills and if you’re not an owner of the equipment learn a bit more about female genital anatomy. Getting a lay of the land is crucial in knowing where to set up camp (okay, these double entendres aren’t really working anymore).If you've got the basics covered, skip ahead to advanced cunnilingus technique.


Oral Sex Positions
Love oral sex but finding your patterns a bit routine? Change up your oral sex position and discover new possibilities for touch and oral sex, and if you like explore the power dynamics that underlie this intense experience of giving and receiving.


Oral Sex and STDs
If you think sharp teeth and facial hair are the most dangerous thing you’ll encounter during oral sex you need to think again. The good news is that when you know what you’re doing, oral sex can be a very low risk sexual activity.


Oral Sex Videos
If you're looking for inspiration you and straight talk about oral sex these adult sex education videos are all recommended. Ranging in quality and explicitness each of these videos adds to the oral sex discussion, and many do so in a highly arousing way.

10 Sex tips to improve your sexual life

As long as you're talking and listening to each other, you're well on the way to a healthy sex life. However, even the most contented lovers can have fun trying new things, so here are some ideas.

1. Build anticipation

Agree on a period of time, say one week, when you won’t have orgasms or penetrative sex. At first, allow only kissing and holding each other. Gradually move on to touching and stroking each other, masturbation, oral sex, or whatever feels right for you. But avoid orgasm. At the end of the week, allow yourselves the pleasure of orgasm, through any kind of sex you like. This week may help to heighten your senses to all the other wonderful feelings you can share when you’re having sex.

2. Massage

Massage can help you have very sensual sex. As part of foreplay, it's a great way to start things off slowly, and relax into the feel of each other’s skin as your arousal intensifies. But a simple massage that doesn’t lead to sex can also work wonders for your sex life. A non-sexual massage will familiarise (or refamiliarise) you with your partner’s body, reduce stress and reaffirm the intimacy between you. If you don’t want a massage to lead to sex, discuss this with your partner so you can avoid any misunderstanding.

3. The senses

Good sex can embrace all the senses, not just touch. Scented oil for a massage (don't get oil on a latex condom as this can damage it), music and candles for soft lighting can all be erotic, as well as listening to your partner’s breathing and the sounds that they make. Taste each other as you kiss. If you both want to, you could mix food and sex - feed each other something delicious and juicy, such as strawberries.

4. Whisper

Whether it’s sweet nothings or your sexy intentions, whispering things to each other can add an extra thrill. It doesn’t have to be during foreplay or sex. A sexy phone call leave both of you looking forward to the event for hours or days. This works with texts and emails too, but make sure you send them to the right person, and remember that your employer has the right to access your work email.

5. Masturbation

Masturbation, by yourself or with your partner, can be a bonus for your sex life. Exploring your own body and sexual responses means that you can share this knowledge with your partner. Masturbating your partner can help you learn more about what turns them on. It can also be a useful option if one of you doesn’t feel like full penetrative sex, or if you have different levels of desire. Talk about it with your partner.

6. Sex toys

If you and your partner both feel comfortable with it, using sex toys can be an arousing thing to do together. Some people use vibrators (and more) as an enjoyable part of their sex life. If you’ve never thought about using sex toys before, how do you feel about trying them? You can buy them online or in sex shops.

7. Read a book

There are many books that have exercises and ideas to help you achieve a fulfilling sex life, whatever your age, gender, sexual orientation or taste. If you’ve never thought about buying a book about sex, why not do it now? You might wish you’d done it years ago.

 8. Share fantasies and desires

Everyone has unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From earlobes to ankles, hairline to hips, pirates to picnics, don’t be afraid to talk about them. If you and your partner know about each other’s turn-ons, you can make the most of them.

9. Keep it clean

We’re talking about your general hygiene. You don’t have to keep yourself super-scrubbed: a certain amount of sweat is fine, as long as it isn’t overwhelming. But be respectful towards your partner, and wash every day to prevent nasty smells and tastes.

10. Relax

Sex with a loving partner can be one of the most beautiful and intense experiences in life. Sometimes the best sex happens when you’re not worrying about making it exciting or orgasmic. Relax with your partner, and great sex may come and find you.

Lady Mag Lies: 5 Common Myths About Female Orgasms

The science of sexuality has come along way since the days experts questioned the basic existence of the female orgasm. In the modern era, the sexual health of women is a major field of study, and most couples devote a great deal of time and attention to her pleasure. But many myths about the female orgasm still exist; in fact, you’d probably be shocked by the sheer volume of potentially harmful misinformation that’s out there. Read on as we dispel some of the female orgasm’s greatest falsehoods.

Myth #1: “Normal” women have orgasms through intercourse alone.

The truth is, only about a third of women regularly experience orgasm through intercourse. Every woman’s body is different, and each has her own special set of needs. For example, roughly another third of women can achieve orgasm through vaginal intercourse, but only with the aid of extra simulation. Some women will never reach orgasm during intercourse at all, but can experience release through manual and oral titillation. Others require her partner to hum “Yakety Sax” over her clitoris. Some women can only get off by timing her thrusts to to an animated GIF of Jon Hamm winking.

Myth #2: It’s possible to orgasm by eating a particularly delicious cup of low-fat yogurt.

Although there are several ways for women to achieve orgasm, placing dairy products into the mouth is not one of them. This myth owes its origin to the yogurt advertising industry, which has produced quite a few commercials showing a woman moaning with pleasure while enjoying a cup of fruit-flavored Yoplait. The women in these advertisements may be experiencing feelings of gratification and even arousal while eating their yogurt, but these sensations cannot accurately be described as orgasms.

Myth #3: “Come Together” by The Beatles is about the female orgasm.

It is not. John Lennon write this song for Timothy Leary when Leary campaigned against Ronald Reagan for the California governorship in 1969. Leary’s campaign platform was marijuana legalization and his campaign slogan was “Come together, join the party.” The latter includes a fun double-entendre, but it’s in reference to the word “party” and not the word “come.”

“(I Can’t Get No) Satisfaction” by The Rolling Stones, on the other hand, is actually about the male orgasm — and in typical rock ‘n’ roll fashion, it discounts the needs of women entirely.

Myth #4: The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by several simultaneous female orgasms.

The Northridge earthquake of ’94 was caused by a rupture in a previously undiscovered blind trust fault located in the San Fernando Valley. The confusion here is twofold. First to blame is the perpetuation of the term “earth-shattering” to describe intense orgasms. This expression is purely symbolic and is not meant to literally describe tectonic shifts in the earth’s core. The second point of confusion lies in the fact that the Valley is the epicenter of the pornography industry. However, the quake occurred at 4:31 A.M., and, believe it or not, porn shoots usually occur during normal working hours. The only L.A. women awake and naked at 4:31 in the morning are desperate actresses fucking fifty-five-year-old industry execs in town from New York City, which means that any “earth-shattering” climaxes that occurring at the time of the quake were obviously faked.

Myth #5: Gwyneth Paltrow has never had an orgasm.

This is also a false rumor. Gwyneth has actually achieved orgasm once in her life, although it was completely by accident. She happened to catch a glimpse of her shiny flaxen hair in the mirror, and, high on two pounds of imported acai, experienced a rush so intense she was left with a wad of goop in her 1200-thread count artisanal Egyptian cotton panties.

Sex With Your Ex: Always A Bad Idea?

If you asked someone on the street, "Is sex with an ex a good idea?" The answer would likely be a resounding, "No!" In fact, according to our Break Up With Your Ex research, a whopping 81 percent agree that ex sex is always a bad idea. 5 Breakup Myths And Facts

Psychologists, however, seem to disagree. A recently released study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology suggests that sex with a former lover isn't so bad after all.

Researchers observed the post-breakup adjustment of 137 married couples who had recently separated. Many stayed in touch with their former partners, and of those couples, the ones who were still having sex were actually doing better psychologically than those who weren't.

Before you grab your phone and call your last boyfriend, take note of this: "Sexual contact with an ex-partner seems to be associated with better well being for those who aren't over the relationship," says lead author Ashley Mason, a clinical psychology PhD candidate.

That’s right, she said "not over the relationship." So, while the headlines may promote ex sex, it's not a cure-all for everyone. Rather, those who benefitted from the sexual intimacy still felt a psychological attachment to their former partner, and were ultimately "settling" for sex even though they wished to get back together. Doesn't sound like a great deal to me.

The researchers go on to explain that sex with an ex prevents a person from seeking out and finding new relationships, which also elongates the post-breakup healing process.

And you, what do you think?

10 Things you should never say during sex

Your man wants to believe he’s Superman, especially when it comes to his performance in the bedroom. When it comes to spicing things up and communicating your sex needs, get the conversation going in the right direction — UP! — by avoiding these specifics statements that make only make your stud feel like a dud…

1. “You’ve never gotten me off.” Blaming him for your orgasmic difficulties will leave your superhero feeling like a complete zero. The truth is 33-50 percent of women experience orgasm infrequently and 10- 15 percent of us have never even reached the “Big O.” Instead, come up with a list of ways he could make you more comfortable in the boudoir (my personal favorite is a full body massage). Many of our orgasmic problems come from anxiety and worry.

2. “I faked it.” The truth is out! Research has found that 80 percent of women fake orgasm during intercourse at least half of the time, but he definitely does not want to think that you are a part of that statistic. How about you stop faking it altogether and work together on getting there for real?

3. “Are you done already?” Although he may want to last forever, it is not always that easy. Telling him he should last longer will only make him anxious next time, which can lead to premature ejaculation or turn him into Mr. Softee. If he’s done before you are, have him finish you off another way. And if it becomes a recurring issue? It’s time to talk.

4. “It could be bigger.” The biggest thing on his mind is if his member measures up. Never belittle the little, medium or big man. There’s nothing he can do about the junk in his trunks.

5. “You never care about my needs.” Chances are you are a priority, as most men rate their sexual experience highly when they believe they have completely pleased their partner. If your needs aren’t being met, be sure you’ve communicated them clearly. If he genuinely does not care about your needs, don’t waste your breath telling him — cut and run, sister.

 6. “My ex did ____ better.” Unless you’re trying to break up with him in the meanest way possible, why? Why would you say this? No.

7. “I’m bored.” Maybe it’s time to try something different, but this statement will only make him believe that you are tired of him and want someone new.

8. “I’d rather use a toy.” Yes, toys can be a lot of fun to play with and you should absolutely experiment with them in the sack, but no one — man or woman – wants to play second fiddle to a battery operated device.

9. “I was with someone else yesterday.” He may not expect you to be the Virgin Queen, but some information is better left unsaid.

10. “Do you think I’m fat?” There is no worse place to deal with self-esteem or body image issues than the sack. He wants you to feel sexy, wanted and beautiful when you are about to get it on — and you should feel like the goddess you are, regardless of any cellulite you have on your butt. Deal with your insecurities at another time or the bad sex that follows will give you even more to worry about.

5 Perfectly Good Reasons To Sleep With Him On The First Date

Oh, there are just rules for everything, huh? Floss after every meal! Don’t wear white after Labor Day! If you’re going to pick your nose, do it in private! As Mischa Barton knows, rules are meant to be broken and there’s no bigger one to break, in my book, than that whole “don’t bone a dude on the first date” rule. Sure, there are plenty of decent reasons to resist doing the horizontal mambo right away, but there are just as many to justify dropping your drawers and getting it on tout de suite! Here are five.1. It Might Be Your Only Chance
When I was in college, I had a crazy fire burning in my loins for a guy that I worked with on my college newspaper. I just had to experience some sort of physical intimacy with him, consequences (heartbreak, post-coital awkwardness, etc.) be damned. When the opportunity presented itself — in the form of me getting a little tipsy and pushing him up against a brick wall in order to kiss him — I seized it. I knew full well that my brazen behavior could cost me any further opportunities with him, but I also knew those opportunities were hardly guaranteed. This one time was. So. Worth. It. But I had to be OK with it maybe not being worth it in the first place.

2. To Weed Out The Sexists
Some say that a guy won’t take a woman “seriously” if she gives up the cookies on the first date. Guess what? I don’t take guys like this seriously because they are gross, sexist hypocrites who will eventually reveal themselves as such whether you sleep with them on the first date or the 50th — better to find out early, right? Time is a-wastin’!

3. To Get Laid, Duh
Guess what? Women like to have sex too. And sometimes, shocker, we don’t spend hours and hours obsessing over OMG-what-might-happen-if-we-do-it — sometimes we’re … how do I put this … what’s the word? Oh yeah. Horny.

4. Test Your Sexual Chemistry
And by that I really mean “find out if you’re compatible in bed.” You can spark all you want with someone, but, when push comes to shove, if they can’t get you aroused, you’re in trouble. I really don’t see the point in delaying that inevitable discovery. Do archaeologists spot, like, a dinosaur bone and then say, “You know, I don’t think we should dig it up and identify whether it’s a triceratops or a stegosaurus for another three weeks”? No. They don’t. Don’t try and find flaws with this argument. It’s completely irrefutable.

5. Once Is Enough
I have this theory that when men have little boy babies, they sneak into their rooms at night while mom is sleeping and whisper in their tiny, impressionable ears, “When a woman has sex with you, she will always want to come back for more.” Movies like “Fatal Attraction” only reinforce this stereotype that once a woman meets a penis she has to make it her best friend. Seriously, sometimes we’re totally fine and cool with only having sex with someone once. Therefore, fornicating on the first date is just efficient day planner management.

Ultimately, only you can decide for yourself if sleeping with a guy on a first date is a good idea for you and what you want from him after the sex is over. Oh, and don’t be stupid. Use a condom. STDs and accidental pregnancies take the fun out of brunch the next morning.

Source: thefrisky.com

Watch me

Katie has the sweetest body...creamy skin, a little extra meat on her bones, dark brown hair, big brown eyes, and shapely breasts. I woke up horny one morning, but she said she wasn't up for sex. I started to touch myself, working a slow rhythm. Katie asked what she could do to help. Not wanting to pass up the opportunity I asked her to straddle me and play with her soft round breasts.

We'd never done something like that before, and I was pleased when she went along with it. Her thighs hugged mine as she rubbed her breasts while staring into my eyes. She would smile slightly and pinch her dark-pink nipples. The hardened nipples rolling between her thumb and forefinger were a wonderful encouragement. She cooed and sighed for me, and would lift her hips slightly as I stroked. She cupped her breasts, pinched her nipples, and ran her hands up and down her sides.

Occasionally, I would brush my fist against the front of her panties and she would tilt her head up and sigh. I began to jerk my hips at the sight of her hands pressing into her breasts, and I closed my eyes. As I came, she bent forward causing my cum to splash onto her breasts and drip down off her rock-hard nipples. As she stood up I began to tell her who great that was, and she slowly pulled of her panties. Katie got back on top of me and guided me into her hot, wet pussy. She felt incredible, and I was hard again in an instant. She pushed down on me a few times, with her rosy breasts bouncing gently.

Soon she rolled over and I spread her thighs and pushed past her beautiful swollen lips. She continued to squeeze and caress her breasts as I stroked in and out faster. She was burning up inside, and her wetness was heavenly. Katie's face grew flush and she began to moan loudly. She bit her lower lip and pinched her nipples furiously as I pounded into her. She clamped her legs tight around my waist and ground her hips hard against mine. In an instant she yelled out and arched her back up high as I thrust into her as deep and as fast as I could. She shook and moaned and touched herself all over, and finally I came again shooting deep into her tight and throbbing pussy.

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Close Encounter in the Car

I have met the sexist man ever on the Internet. We started chatting on a Sunday night and the conversation got sexy fast. We finally decided to talk to each other on the phone. We talked all night and it was great - sharing each other's sexy stories, etc. We met the next night for drinks. He was a good-looking man, with the most intense eyes. After two rounds and some kissing, he started to rub my pussy through my pantyhose. I was so hot and juicy wet and wanted to "play" with him in the car. We had the most exciting car sex. He immediately starting deep-throat kissing me and kissing my neck, while pulling and tugging on my nipples. He rubbed my pussy through my pantyhose and I was so wet. I took my pantyhose and panties down and told him I wanted him to fuck me hard in his back seat. He threw my leg over his shoulder and entered my wet hot pussy. While pumping in and out, he deep-throat kissed me and I told him how fucking hot his cock felt in me. I grabbed his balls and held on till he came inside me. Then I started to lick and suck and nibble his still engorged cock with my pussy juices on it. He fingered my pussy and ass as he came in my mouth. Great lover. The next time we met I did anal and that’s another story.

Source: truedirtystories

After-Party Whoopee

My friend had been trying to hook me up with this guy that she knew, but I wasn't a big fan of blind dates. When I finally met him at a party, I asked he why she hadn't told me he was so hot. We both ended up drinking quite a bit and decided to spend the night at my friend's house. They pulled out the hide-a-bed for us, and since I had to be to work in like 4 hours, I asked him to help me stay awake. We started making out, and he took off my clothes and kissed my breasts and then he went down on me. I was so turned on that I started taking off his clothes and told him to lay down, where I proceeded to go down on him. After a few minutes, he took over and flipped me onto my back and started to fuck me. It felt so good, and I was so hot for him. Then we switched positions and I got on top for a while. Then he switched again and entered me from behind, and when he was about to cum, he pulled out and blew his load all over my ass. A few minutes after we finished and got dressed, my friend came into the room where we were. To this day, she still doesn't know what happened on her hide-a-bed.

Source: truedirtystories

Let's go swimming

We came close to being caught a few times, but our sex life was nothing daring, except this day. We were swimming in the local swimming pool with my kids happily swimming around with their friends and the pool quite packed because of the severe heat. I wrapped my legs around his front and floated on my back to relax. His hand gently started massaging me, and the next thing he had pulled my swimsuit to the side and was inside me! He walked up and down the pool with me attached, with the water on my back pushing me onto him. I constantly looked around to see if anybody was looking but everybody was doing their own thing. This continued with us for about 10mins, until finally he took me into neck-deep water, pulled me to him, buried his face in my neck as he groaned, and I felt his heat inside of me. It was fantastic.

Source: truedirtystories

Relief on the Road

I had been teasing my fiancé for a while at home. I would kiss his neck, slip my hand down his pants, and play with him until he got hard. Then I would stop altogether. I would do this off and on for a few hours at home. Then it was time for us to go out on our date. He was so worked up from me playing with his cock that he had become grumpy. So we got in the car and I started feeling bad for turning him on and then not making him cum. As soon as he pulled out of the driveway, I undid his pants and pulled out his throbbing cock. I leaned over and slowly slid my mouth down his shaft. He groaned extremely loudly out of appreciation. I then added my hands, giving him a blow job and a hand job alternately. He could barely keep the car on the road or his eyes on the traffic, but that's what made it so much fun. He came so extremely hard as his cum hit the back of my throat. Sometimes I still give him this extra treat while he's driving, just to let him know how much I love his cock.

Source: truedirtystories

Early to Rise

I talked to my boyfriend on the phone the night before and he suggested that I go to his house early in the morning so that he parents wouldn't know a thing. I got to his house at 3 am the next morning. I sneaked in we went to his bedroom. We both lay in bed, I was on top of him and we were both in complete darkness. Then he started to feel my breasts, rubbing my nipples and playing with them. He moved down and put his hands into my pants and started to stroke my clit. I started to moan as he bit, licked and sucked on my neck. I reached down behind to feel his cock. I turned around and started to straddle and rub my pussy against his bulging pants. I slowly took his clothes off and he took mine off. I continued to ride on his cock, on the outside spreading my juices all over while he squeezed and played with my ass with his hands and fingers. At that time he sucked and nibbled my nipples hard. we tried not to make too much noise as his parents could hear. He couldn't take it anymore and rammed his hard cock hard into my pussy. He pumped harder and harder. my brain was about to explode with the pleasure. Pumping his meat into me hard while devouring my breasts. He came in me, and I felt his juices go all over inside of me. My head was whizzing and I soon came. Soon after we lay in his bed exhausted and breathing hard, while I was still stroking and teasing his red hot cock.

Source: truedirtystories

Office Fling

We both worked in the same department at work along with my husband, but we'd had an ongoing flirtation for months. My husband works the day shift, but I work the night shift along with my fling. One night, we finally admitted to each other how much we both wanted to take things further and ended up having cybersex over IM at work. The next night, we had our regular "date" to hang out, and we thought we'd be alone. Unfortunately, one of his old friends showed up in town earlier than expected, and given my marital status, we had to keep things contained. But I couldn't take my eyes off him. When I stepped outside for some air, my coworker followed me and we ended up having a heavy makeout session in his backyard.

Source: truedirtystories

He Totally Understood

I had been dating Elliot for a few weeks, but we had never gotten very physical. Yesterday, as I was getting ready for out date I realized I would have to make the first move. I carefully selected matching panties and a bra and smiled as I imagined fucking him. We went to dinner, and to see Planet of the Apes, and I couldn't wait to get him back to my house. When we finally got home and he went to kiss me good night, I pressed myself against him and told him I didn't want the night to end yet. I led him inside to my bedroom and gave him a look that meant, "come here and fuck my brains out." Lucky for me, he totally understood. We passionately kissed and as out tongue wrapped around each other, I unzipped his fly. He had the most beautiful, huge, throbbing cock I have ever seen...he licked my nipples, pulled my hips to him...sucked my clit...pushed his tongue deep deep into my wet and warm cunt...I couldn't believe it, he knew how to give head like it was his profession. He sucked me until I screamed out his name in the pleasure of my orgasm. Then, I slid down him and proceeded to suck on his huge manroot. I sucked and pushed his cock deep into my mouth, swallowing his wad of cum which quickly shot out. Next I decided I couldn't take it any longer, his hard prick had to go inside me. Elliot mounted me and slowly moved his penis around the opening of my wet pussy. My entire body ached for him and his teasing was too much, I screamed " come on, FUCK ME!!!" And with that, he took his hard dick and plowed it into my tiny cunt...I gasped with the pain and pleasure I felt in that instant. He humped and humped and I moved my hips to meet him. His incredible meat pushed deep into my pussy making me scream and yell with pleasure. I just couldn't get enough...I sucked his tongue as he rammed his cock in me....and I placed my hands on his butt and helped him ram it in super deep. Soon we were both ready to cum and we humped in unison until we yelled and tensed up at the exact same second...my pussy tightened around his throbbing cock, and he came with a huge thrust...I could feel his cum in me...warm and wet...As he slowly pulled his semi hard cock out of me my pussy remained tight around it...I wanted him in me forever, I was the hottest night of my life, and he made me cum 3 more times...Elliot, I am your sex slave baby!

Source: truedirtystories

Laundromat Sexcapade

We were alone at the laundromat. I told him I wanted him to come to the bathroom with me. He looked a little confused but he came anyway. I locked the door behind us and flicked off the light. I pulled up my shirt and undid my bra. He grabbed my tits and started sucking on my nipples while I grabbed his hardness through his pants. I knelt down and undid his belt and pulled his pants down. Then I took a hold of his throbbing meat and started licking the head. He moaned quietly as I took the rest of it into my mouth and softly sucked. I deepthroated him a couple times until we heard someone come in the door right next to the bathroom. We then decided our little sexcapade was over for a little while until we got home. But the whole time we were folding clothes we had grins on our faces cause we knew what we had been doing just a few minutes earlier and what we would be doing once we got home.

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We Became Obvious

We Became Oblivious My lover and I, being married and not to each other, have a difficult time finding places to get together since we can't afford a hotel every time we get the itch. One of our more public displays was in a park on a blanket. We had agreed to stop seeing each other on a sexual basis, but enjoyed each other's company so we would go to lunch often. Well, it had been a while since we had been together and after we ate, all it took was a well placed hand to cause us to jump on each other. We began to kiss and stroke each other in this secluded section of the park. Pretty soon we became oblivious to anything around us. I had his fly unzipped and his penis out and began sucking on it. This drove him wild and soon he was determined to be in me. I was dressed for this and was afraid that people would start coming into our section of the park, but he was determined. He had my pants and undies down and his dick in me in short order. When we became aware there were people in the area he would pull out of me and act like nothing was going on. Then people would leave and in soon we were back to what we were doing earlier. Before long both of us couldn't stand and decided we needed to finish properly. We gathered our items and raced back to his van. He moved it to a less trafficked area and laid into me, pumping me until we were both relieved. We have made love in parking garages, parking lots, parks, park-n-rides, and even on his downstairs patio standing up with me plastered against the house while our spouses were upstairs watching TV (that was really intense!). I have even pulled his penis out and stroked him while we were standing at a winery bar tasting wines. He has fingered me when we had his family and friends at our house while standing in the carport, and he pulled me in to the bathroom twice to fuck me. Our fire and desire for each other outweighs the thought of being caught.

Source: truedirtystories

Layover Quickie

My boyfriend comes from a small town originally, 1000 km from where we live now. Last holidays he went home to see his family for a month, but after 3 weeks I couldn't take it anymore and I caught the plane up to see him. He was picking up me and his aunt from the airport at the same time, but he text messaged me just before I boarded the plane to say that his aunt's plane was delayed by two hours and that we'd "have to kill the time somehow" between 9 and 11pm. It was the longest flight of my life. We grabbed something to eat and sat in the car at the beach eating it, but neither of us could take the politeness much longer, and I put my hand on his thigh and kissed him. He stopped me and started up the engine, taking us somewhere more private. The front seat was awkward, so I climbed over the back, giving him a good view of my g-string underneath my purposefully chosen skirt. He got out of the car and walked around then, and he'd barely closed the door as he ripped off my panties and pushed his rock-hard cock into my wet pussy, which was tighter than ever from 3 weeks without a good hard fuck. After we came, he went down on me, and I soaked the car seat as both our juices poured out of me. We had to make sure that his aunt sat on the other side!

Source: truedirtystories

Sex in the Break Room

I live almost an hour away from my boyfriend so it's hard to see each other often. One day I went to see him at his work. It was a Sunday so hardly anyone came in and he was pretty much the only person there. There is a "break room" that he led me into. We first started making out...feeling....touching...then he asked me if I wanted to see his cock. Of course I did. There it was, big and hard. I started to jerk him off, slowly but faster and faster as we went. Before I knew it I had his cock in my mouth. It tasted so good and so warm. After a while he unzipped my pants and started fingering my pussy. I jerked him off as he fingered my pussy. We came together. It was sooo good and so hot because any minute someone could have walked in on us.

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How ‘Bout I Give You a 'Present'?

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